After you’ve been in a relationship with your man for quite some time, it’s not uncommon for the passion and romantic energy to dwindle. It’s not that you don’t love each other or find each other attractive anymore, but that familiarity you have with each other’s bodies can cause both parties to take each other for granted.
It’s no secret that relationships are difficult but sometimes we make our relationships difficult when they don’t have to be. Communication is a big one.
Things like petty arguments turn into big arguments, and those “quirks” you used to love are now becoming unbearable… When you start noticing things like this creeping into your relationship, it may be time to bring the spark back into your relationship.
Fortunately, doing so isn’t going to be as hard as you might think, but it will require some effort on your part, but this effort will be well worth it in the end, and you’ll have a refreshed relationship as a result.
If your relationship is feeling a little stale, here are some ways to freshen it back up.
TIPS AND TRICKS GUARANTEED TO MAKE YOURSELF MORE ATTRACTIVE TO YOUR MAN
PAY HIM COMPLIMENTS
Complimenting your man is not only one of the great ways to show appreciation but it’s also a way to make yourself more attractive to him. And complimenting isn’t just speaking on how well his physical appearance is either. There are actually two areas of compliments that mean the most to a man.
- A compliment about his career
- A compliment about what he feels least confident about
Tell him how his passion for his work is sexy or let him know how you love his new physique (if he’s gained a little weight). Paying him these types of compliments will make you so attractive and will do so much for his confidence than you even realize.
WORK ON YOUR PHYSIQUE
The goal is to make yourself more attractive to your man, right? Well, if you’re like many people who’ve been in long relationships, you’ve probably gained some love weight, and that’s okay. Why not whip yourself back into shape to become even more attractive to him.
It doesn’t have to be anything major but consider changing your eating habits, like drinking raw fruit and vegetable juices or taking pole dance classes (this will not only improve your physique but also teach you some new moves for the bedroom!).
It’s always been a tradition that men initiate things first and women follow suit, but it’s also okay for women to initiate things too, and it’s extremely attractive to men. For the man in your life, consider initiating date night, romantic evenings, and flirting.
If you’re in a group setting, and you see your man across the room, send him a “for his eyes only” text message and see what his reaction is. Or if he’s had a long day at work, allow him to come home and ask him what he wants for dinner because you’re going to go pick it up and bring it to him… Initiating actions in the relationship will make him fall in love with you all over again.
These are just a few ways to make yourself more attractive to your man, but by starting with these, your man will be in for a whirlwind of surprises to come, and he will definitely be along for the ride.